A Touching Experience…In More Ways Than One

Over the past several years, I have been visiting one of my mother’s friends in a nursing home.   My mother passed away several years ago, and so our visits in the nursing home have meant as much to me as to the lady I visit.  We talk about my mother, the upcoming birth of my grandbabies, or catch up on news about people we both know.

Due to the fact that her health is deteriorating (she’s 90 years old), her hearing has gotten worse and it’s getting hard for her to talk.  Sometimes the words just won’t come out like she wants them to.  So, our past several visits have mostly been a one-sided conversation with me doing the talking and with her having a hard time hearing what I say.  This last visit, though, I didn’t talk much since she was straining to hear me.  I just sat there holding her hand and gently rubbing it.  After a while, she looked at me and said, “I like for you to rub my hands.  That feels good.  It makes me feel like someone cares about me.” Wow!  That really touched my heart and goes to show how much touching someone communicates love!

GPS Directions Were Right!

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If you have never experienced a GPS, they’re great!   Our GPS has saved us from getting lost on trips, vacations, and just trying to find someone’s house.  Once we were in downtown Denver (I live in Texas), and it directed us through all the one-way streets to get to Hard Rock Cafe (our daughter wanted a T-shirt from there.)

Recently, I went with a couple of girlfriends to a Ladies Retreat at a really neat ranch & retreat.  We had printed directions and were going by that.  My friend had her GPS turned on, though, and it was giving us conflicting directions.  After we drove around for a while not being able to find our destination, we stopped and asked directions.  Turns out her GPS was right and our directions were giving us the wrong street!

I don’t know if my friend had a Garmin GPS, but we wished we had listened to her GPS in the first place.  Then we wouldn’t have gotten lost!  (However, we do have a good story to laugh about now!)

Friends & Horses

horse-3-5-09We have several friends who like to ride horses, and one has her own horse.  She’s so faithful to always go feed and brush it every day.  She has her horse supplies and everything she needs to care for her horse.
Now me, I rode a horse many years ago. I can’t say that I felt comfortable on it, in fact, just the opposite.  I think they are awesome and beautiful animals, but I’ll stick to having a dog for a pet!

Idea for Gift Wrap

2nd-sd-card-christis-grad-gift-wrap-2nd-2-20-09This is a gift we gave our daughter last year when she graduated with her master’s degree.  I wanted her gift to look extra special, so I wrapped it a lot fancier than I usually do.  Most of the time, I put gifts in a gift bag with tissue paper; however, I usually do wrap half the gifts at Christmas…but they’re not fancy.

With springtime here, there are going to be a lot of bridal showers and graduation gifts.  If you need some fancier gift wrap but don’t want to pay for expensive gift wrapping, you can do it yourself and save money.

Now that a lot of us are trying to save money, here are some ideas for even greater savings on gift wrapping:

  • Look for nice gift wrap at places like Ross Stores and Tuesday Morning.
  • Use coupons from craft stores such as Michael’s and Jo-Ann Fabrics to buy nice gift wrap, nice sheer ribbon, and silk flowers.

Wrapping a gift yourself for that special person is worth the effort, plus it’s fun to be creative!

Groom’s Cake Gets Creative

2nd-sd-card-wedding-cake-from-lisa-holly-bb-wedding-001A lot of people are planning weddings this time of year.  Actually it’s a year-round thing because when our daughter got married, we started planning over a year in advance.  Crazy, isn’t it?!!  Anyway, I just wanted to share this picture of a groom’s cake where the groom, who is an avid fan of …hmmm…I wonder what  :), had his ideal groom’s cake complete with a puzzle he put together himself.   Pretty creative!  Just put the cake on a pretty silver tray surrounded with greenery and baby’s breathe, and it looks elegant!

Have a Cup of Coffee or Tea

2nd-sd-card-organic-popcorn-my-c-cup-avocado-slicer-002How do you like my new  mug that my daughter painted for me?  It’s personalized with my first initial, has dots on it which remind me of our daughter because she likes polka dots, and it’s pretty.  I have used it many times already!  Wish you could come have a cup of coffee or tea with me and chat for a while.  (I’ll be having tea.)

“We Survived the Road to Hana!”

There’s a T-shirt available in Hawaii that has the saying on it, “I survived the road to Hana.”   If you’ve been on that road, then you know exactly what they mean.  It will be ten years this June since our family went to Hawaii, but I still remember a lot about it because it was such an awesome trip.  And I definitely remember the road to Hana.

2nd-sd-card-hawaiiWe took that road during the daytime to get to the “Seven Sacred Springs” which were beautifully located in a rain forest.  It was worth the trip on the narrow, winding-around-mountains-road to get to walk in the rain forest around the springs.  However, we had no idea how horrendous our return trip would be.

When we left the springs to head back to our motel on the other side of the island, it was nearly dark and starting to rain.  Winding around narrow, treacherous, mountain roads (so narrow that you had to honk to warn on-coming traffic as you rounded a curve because there was only room for one car on the curve!!!!!) on a dark, rainy night for miles and miles and miles was at the very least nerve-wracking.  We were never so glad to get to flat land and see the lights of the city.

So…if you ever go to Hawaii, Maui to be exact, beware of the “road to Hana!”  The Seven Sacred Pools and rainforest are worth the drive but be sure you travel the road during daylight hours!  And if you survive, be sure to get yourself a T-shirt.  🙂

In Response to Finding Faith

This is in response to Lori’s “Finding Faith” post.  I was going to leave a comment but then realized it would end up being a long comment and it was actually something I would like to share with my readers.  Sorry about the quality of the pictures.  I took digital pictures of photos I already had, but hey, it works.   Well, here goes:

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This happened back in 2001 on a Saturday morning.  My husband was gone for the morning, and it was just our son and me at home.   He wanted to go next door and see the neighbor boy.  The weather report said that a storm was heading our way but it sounded like it would be 30 minutes before it got to our house, so I said OK.   He opened the front door and then came back inside.  Then we heard the tornado sirens going off.  Minutes later, we heard someone knocking at our back door.  It was a neighbor who informed me that our two gigantic trees had  blown over and completely obstructed the sidewalk and front door.  We ran around to the front and sure enough, there was this massive forest of tree trunks and branches all over our sidewalk.

Neighbors gathered quickly and covered the hole in our roof with tarpaulin  because rain was headed our way.  That was a blessing because soon the rain started to pour.

When things had settled down a bit and my son and I were talking about all that had happened that morning, I found out that when he opened the front door, he actually saw those two gigantic trees (which were close to our house, not far from the front door) swaying from the ground up.  In other words, the trunks themselves were swaying which meant they were getting ready to come forward towards the house.  I realized that God had kept our son safe from going out onto the sidewalk where the trees were getting ready to fall, clearly God’s protection.

On Monday when the insurance adjuster came, he couldn’t get over how those two huge trees did not cut our house like a knife.  He said that when you have two enormous trees fall over on a house, it usually cuts completely through the house.  Again, I realized again how God had protected both my son and me from being hurt by the trees and a falling roof and ceiling.

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One thing I remember, too, is that my husband said those two trees looked like they had been laid gently on our house.  I believe it was the hand of God, easing the fall of those trees to protect us!

How many times does God protect us throughout our lives and we don’t even realize it?

We ended up getting our roof repaired and a replacement chimney.  One tree did major damage to a corner of the house where there is a walk-in closet.  (You could stand in that closet, look up, and see the sky.)

I felt sorry for the guys on trash day who came to pick up tree limbs! Those pieces of tree trunk and large limbs were huge and very heavy.  Those were 60 year old trees so they had done a lot of growing!

Hubby’s “Recipe” for Healthier Snack Crackers

My husband did so well…he brought home some new Wheat Thins “Fiber Selects” Garden Vegetable Crackers.  They sounded good and healthy with five grams of fiber per serving.  However, we tasted them and they were dry and not near as tasty as the regular vegetable crackers.   So this is what my husband did…here’s his “recipe”:

  • Wheat Thins Fiber Selects Crackers
  • Extra Virgin Olive Oil
  • Sea Salt

Dribble a few drops of olive oil on each cracker.  Sprinkle with sea salt.  Heat in microwave until warm.

The crackers were delicious after he did that, and they were still healthier than regular crackers because of the fiber and healthy fat.

Happy New Year!

This is a little late, but I do want to wish everyone a happy new year.  The holidays were so busy that I neglected my blog, but family is more important!

We had a wonderful Christmas with family.  Our daughter, son-in-law and 16 month old grandson came on Christmas Eve.  We enjoyed being together on Christmas Day, however, we weren’t able to be with everyone we wanted to be with and missed them!

We went out the day after Christmas to shop the after Christmas sales a little bit.  Then our daughter and her family left and we proceded to pack our minivan and leave on our trip to Illinois to visit my husband’s mother.

We enjoyed a wonderful visit with my mother-in-law and also my husband’s nephew, his wife, young daughter, and baby.   However, my mother-in-law got sick on New Year’s Eve day with fever so all plans were abandoned.  We hated to leave her on Friday, but she seemed to be doing better.  A couple of days later on Sunday, a friend took her to the ER and she was admitted with double pneumonia.  (So beware, the only symptoms she had were fever, nasal congestion, and a little cough from her throat – no apparent chest congestion or pain) We’re thankful she’s improving!

I pray that everyone will have a good year, that you will grow ever closer in  relationship with the Lord and if you don’t have a relationship then I pray a seed of faith will develop and grow, that you will have quality time with your family, and that you will find much joy in the things that money can’t buy!

800 Toll Free Forwarding Services

We have some friends that will be moving soon from Texas to Nebraska.  It’s such a hassle to move with all the packing, dealing with utilites and phone companies, having mail forwarded, etc, etc.  Seems like there’s an endless list of things to do.  It does help to have mail forwarded and also to have toll free forwarding services for important phone calls.  The really hard part, though, is that friends can’t be forwarded.  That’s what makes moving so hard!